Just because you carry something well doesn’t mean it’s not heavy.
What I was most afraid to be turned out the be the exact thing I needed.
Vulnerability is not weak. It is a sign of strength. It connects us so nobody has to feel alone.


The end of 2019 humbled me. I went from feeling like I was right on track with life to being knocked off track and losing my sense of identity, reality and emotional self. I didn’t feel like me anymore. I became someone I barely recognised but yet I still had the deepest love for her and wanted to protect her.

I worked on myself and became empowered. I wanted to be strong and independent not just for my children but for myself. I didn’t want to depend on anybody because I didn’t want to be disappointed. Even when I met the most wonderful man, I struggled to let my guard down. I could not for the life of me say out loud that sometimes I get so tired physically and emotionally. I could not ask for help or receive it. I didn’t want to admit out loud that I am not as strong as I make myself out to be. I did not want to admit divorce turned me into an insecure fearful woman who drowned herself with false beliefs.

I still have a lot to work on myself and yet I know I have come a long way. I know I’m strong as heck but I also realise there’s nothing wrong with sharing your “baggage”. Life is just brighter and lighter when you surround yourself with people who support and nurture your growth.

As broken as you think you are, you are always worthy of love.
People who love you want to be there for you.

Trauma is awful. I have finally learnt that no it does not make you stronger. It actually makes you fearful and weaker. YOU make yourself stronger because YOU are the one getting yourself out of the dark hole.
Trauma sucks but it does not have to define you. Be gentle with your healing and be patient with your heart. Healing is never linear. It’s ok to have some not so good days. Keep going and take it a day at a time. Even on days you feel weak, know you are still strong. On days you feel alone, doesn’t mean that it is true. YOU ARE LOVED. Period.

I hope in sharing my story that some of you will not only feel less alone but have courage to let yourself become vulnerable too.


Love, your forever cheerleader and friend,
Lindy xo




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