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Paruresis, is called many things, sometimes it is avoidant paruresis, sometimes shy bladder syndrome, sometimes bashful bladder syndrome but whatever you call it, it can be a very difficult condition to live with. The good news, however, is that there is a cure for this.
This cure involves a powerful combination of NLP neurolinguistic programming, and hypnosis, and this cure is often quick and almost invariably lasting. The reason it works so well is that it undoes the mental pattern that involves the person imagining, ahead of time, finding it difficult to go to the toilet. Guess what the difference is between someone who suffers from shy bladder syndrome and someone who does not have these problems. The former worries and has anxiety about it in advance, the latter does not. Reprogram the anticipation of shy bladder syndrome, get the person to imagine finding the situation easy and comfortable, and lo and behold, it becomes so.
This sounds simple and that is basically because it is. NLP and hypnosis combined are brilliant tools to retrain your imagination, so that it is under your control, rather, as with paruresis the other way around. Yes there is more to it than this, but this imagination training is absolutely key. The way to get over this is be trained to think like someone who doesnt have these problems.
The JustBeWell team of practitioners is a worldwide network of experienced people who have helped people overcome these issues for many years, so do get in touch for help.