Cats may seem aloof and indifferent, but they put up with a lot of annoying human behaviors.
Even the most laidback cats have their limits, but it seems that the more a cat loves you, the more tomfoolery your cat is willing to put up with.
With that in mind, what do humans do that cats won’t tolerate unless you are their favorite?
In this video, we will talk about 14 human actions that cats will only tolerate from their favorite human.











Touching their nose
A cat’s nose is very sensitive, and most cats don’t like their nose being touched. In the world of cats, nose touching is a very intimate gesture. It is a step above bunting.
A nose poke also leaves the cat very vulnerable as we must be very close to their face to do it, therefore it is offered sparingly and only to the best of friends.
So if your cat allows you to touch their nose, it means they fully trust you and see you as a very close companion.

Being picked up
Most cats do not like being picked up. Being held translates to being restricted– and we all know cats love their freedom. When they are restricted, they feel threatened and so they will do anything to flee from us and find a place where they feel they are in control of their surroundings.
Being picked up may also make a cat feel like they’re being taken by a predator. So even though you have friendly intentions, it may not come off that way.
But this is not the case for all kitties. A cat who trusts its owner may learn to associate picking up as a gesture of affection and even demand your cuddles.

Hugs
A lot of us would find a hug a lovely sign of affection from someone we are close to, but this is not the case for a lot of our feline friends.
Hugs can generate a feeling of imprisonment and make cats feel vulnerable. Hugs are naturally constricting, and when you consider how small your cat is, it essentially immobilizes them. Unfortunately, a gesture of affection of this kind might be perceived as a threat.
That said, some cats may tolerate gentle hugs from their trusted humans.
Direct eye contact
Cats can find direct eye contact quite threatening.
It’s best to avoid direct eye contact with your pet. If you stare into their eyes and they don’t seem threatened, it is a sign they are confident that you don’t want to hunt them.

Belly rubs
Cats don’t like having their bellies touched because it is an extremely sensitive and vulnerable area on their body. This soft underbelly protects some of their most vital organs.
When a cat rolls over and shows you his belly, it's often because she is very relaxed and trusts you a lot.
And if your cat does ever allow you to touch their belly, it’s truly a compliment. It means your cat feels very safe with you.
Touching their tail
Cats enjoy being touched on the base of their tail, but only if it’s from a trusted person. The base of a cat’s tail is an erogenous zone with lots of nerve endings.
In the world of cats, touching tails is a very intimate experience that happens between two friendly felines.
So if your cats enjoy being petted or scratched in this region, it means they see you as a best friend.
Washing them
Cats are very clean animals who prefer to groom themselves without human intervention. Most cats feel anxious and stressed by baths because they dislike water.
If your cat allows you to wash and dry them, it’s a sign they love you enough to tolerate this uncomfortable experience.
Eating from hand
Cats prefer to eat their food in a quiet place away from humans and strangers.
Most cats won't take food from a human's hand unless they are someone they trust very much.
If your feline friend eats near you or takes a treat from your hand, it is a clear sign that you guys are best buddies.
Kisses
Most cats do not generally like to be kissed because they don't understand this human expression. Moving your face close to them and kissing them can also be too much of an invasion of space for many cats.
With time however, many cats will tolerate kisses from their favorite human.
Dressing them up
Cats do not like clothing because it makes them feel confined. Putting clothes on them stresses them out.
With that said, if your cat tolerates you dressing them up, they must really like you. it is a good sign that you’ve won their heart.
Face to face
Cats dislike it when a human puts their face near them because they see it as a threat.
Although your cat knows your face, when your much larger head enters their space and field of vision, it's seen as aggressive behavior and they may prepare to pounce or escape.
However, if your cat fully trusts you, they will tolerate or even accept your face in their space as a gesture of affection.
They let you touch their paws
Most cats don’t like their paws touched because they are extremely sensitive and are full of sensory receptors.
If your cat puts up with you touching their paws, it is a sign that they feel very safe with you.