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Is It Possible To Love Two People At The Same Time? | Paul Friedman

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Can you really love two people at the same time? Do you think it is possible? Watch Paul explain why it's possible and you'll learn more in this video that you probably don't know before.

I'm going to try and help you answer this. Now, chances are you're a woman. Ironically, many people would think this is the kind of question a man would ask but it's not. It's usually a question that women ask and I'm going to try to help you understand this. First of all, let's put aside sex for a moment. Let's put aside emotions for a moment and let's talk about what you are and I hope this isn't too lofty for you.

I hope this resonates with you but I want to give you information that is realistic. You're a soul, you're a soul. You've heard the term soulmates. You may even be now thinking, "Oh well, I found my soulmate, unfortunately, I'm not already married to my husband but I love him too. What do I do? Can I love two people at the same time? Is it wrong?"

That's the big question, is it wrong?

You're a soul so put aside let's take a trip down the "twilight zone" if you want. Let's go into a more spiritual discussion and understand that as a soul, you have a body. You came into
this body to live out the experiences of the material world. You were a soul before you were born in this body, you'll be a soul afterwards. You will still be you. In today's world and you could Google past life experiences more and more acceptance about this idea of reincarnation.

Some religions say, "Oh, there's no such thing as reincarnation," even though it's already built into their scripture but they don't want to talk about it because they want you to prove yourself to God now and the idea of reincarnation is also an idea of another chance so
it's kind of religious political condemnation of the idea of reincarnation but it's not scientific. Let's imagine that there's reincarnation, you're a soul. You don't remember your past lives. Some people do it's true. Some people have gone to the extent of describing events, places that have proven that they were incarnated before as someone else. You also have a mind. You're not your mind, you're a soul.

You have a mind and you have a body but you've been around many times. Now, we
know from different scriptures that all of the Saints who have spoken about reincarnation have spoken about it in terms that describe not hundreds or scores or even thousands but millions of incarnations, a longer journey. And we've also heard from various Saints that we
tend to travel in herds. We meet up with the same people over and over. Now Buddha said, "I love all" because you were my father, you were my mother, my sister, my brother, my aunt,
uncle, my son, my daughter and so on.

Let's not confuse this with incarnation as an animal that's not how it works. As a human being, you stay a human being and all your incarnations but you have many of them, many of them and we have known other people in our past lives and sometimes we can tell we bump into someone and we go, "Don't I know you?" No chance of knowing them in this incarnation but you can remember in certain scriptures they call that let's just call it a longterm memory. It's buried, we don't have access to it. No surprise, we know we use less than 10% of our minds but we know them.

Some people we hate immediately we bump into them in there like, whoa, other people were attracted to. Guess what? We may have loved that person with all our heart, mind and soul in the past and now they pop up again after we're married and we're going, "What do I do?" Because that's all that's happening. Well, what you do is you continue to love them but
you don't have to love them as a lover. You can love them as a friend because if you had a really great relationship with them they were your friends. But in God's wisdom, he has set it up so that we could learn to love as God does love.

Who does God not love?

God loves us all and this is our evolution as human beings. We are learning to love all as God loves. Lord teach me to love as now thus love. He does. We don't say, "God teach me to have sex with everyone I come across who I have loved in the past." There'd be lines
forever because you've loved so many times. You have so many friends and you have so
many enemies so now you're tested. You've bumped into somebody for whom you feel
that connection, that draw, that magnetism and they even may still be perfect for you in many ways. It's a test because we have free will. We have volition. Free will is the ability to do what we want.

Watch the video for more.

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