Sometimes people tell me that they feel they can't improve their sleep because they just don't get sleepy enough for sleep. If you are one of these people, there is still hope for you!

Usually, the best thing to do if you don't feel sleepy enough for sleep is to wait until you do feel sleepy for sleep.

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However, if you find that you go for a day or more of no sleep before you feel sleepy and are able to sleep, then there are still some things you can do.

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First, I would suggest implementing sleep restriction — a core component of cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia (CBTI) techniques. By allotting a consistent and appropriate amount of time for sleep, you can help build sleep drive and this can help you feel sleepy and recognize sleepiness cues.

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If you have been implementing sleep restriction for a few weeks and still aren't regularly recognizing sleepiness, this could be because your arousal system is overriding sleep drive and/or suppressing sleepiness cues.

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When this happens, it can be helpful to take a more 'analytical' approach to CBTI techniques.

By this, I mean simply engaging your 'robot mind' and following your sleep window. So, if your sleep window is midnight to 5:00 AM (for example), you would go to bed at midnight (even if you aren't yet recognizing sleepiness). Then, you would stay in bed for as long as you feel calm and relaxed.

If you ever feel anxious or frustrated when awake in bed, get out of bed and give yourself an estimated halfhour or so before returning to bed — and then repeat the process.

Then, no matter how well or how poorly you sleep, try to make sure you are always out of bed by the end of your sleep window.

It's also worth seeing if you can identify any 'sleep drive thieves' — these include daytime naps, morning lieins, and engaging in highly physical or mental activities just before bed.

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Finally, it can be very helpful to give yourself a onehour buffer zone before the start of your sleep window. During this time, engage only in relaxing and enjoyable activities — this can help you unwind, might uncover evidence of sleepiness (such as microsleeps), and help you recognize sleepiness cues.

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