UPDATE: ALL YOU GUYS REALLY NEED IS THIS: https://amzn.to/2V7y7b4
it's a RGA to 3.5mm female jack.




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There were literally no videos on youtube of how to do this, and i ran into this problem a few years ago and still today am looking for a better alternative ... anyway..
here's where you can purchase some of the stuff.
so this particular one is straight to the point:
it's component to 3.5mm https://goo.gl/tWsU5E

and here's a link to the amplifier that i was speaking about, in order to lower or raise the volume on your earphones:
http://amzn.to/2uR5wMV

or this amp too: http://amzn.to/2vCRWue
and then there's this too: http://amzn.to/2uRpszn

and then if you need that extra length you can purchase a 3.5mm male to female headphone extender. I used the component for length since i had spare on hand. it doesn't need to be this particular one, if you find a cheaper one then go for it: https://goo.gl/tggbjq