#narcissist #narcissism #empath Empath beware your love can't heal a narcissist. Be prepared for crazymaking if you try to save or heal a narcissist. Empaths and codependents try to fix and rescue narcissists. When you try to heal a narcissist with your love, your efforts will be used against you.

There are dangers to trying to save a narcissist. You can lose yourself trying to convince them they need help. If you spend time empathizing with their behavior or their wounds, you may lose yourself in the false realities of a narcissistic person. Your life source will be drained and if you don't escape, you can become a permanent source of narcissistic supply, all while trying to rescue and help a narcissist.

If you are codependent, need to feel needed, or identify as a caretaker or rescuer, you Dear One, may find yourself stuck in a toxic world of cognitive dissonance, blameshifting, crazymaking conversations, and unhealthy toxic relationship dynamics. Below the veil of consciousness, you may feel compelled to please a narcissist. You will edit yourself, walk around on eggshells, and disown yourself to keep the peace.

Slowly, you die a mental, emotional, and spiritual death until you AWAKEN and begin to DETACH from the relationship. Gaining perspective STOPS negative momentum and teaches you how to become the SILENT OBSERVER of your thought process. In this new space, you develop boundaries and learn to FACE the FAULTY beliefs that may have been a part of your unconsciousness since childhood.

Suppose you want to break the patterns that bond you to highly narcissistic others. In that case, I encourage you to participate in my highly successful, therapistrecommended 12 Week Breakthrough Coaching Program.

Here's what Tara had to say, a member of our private community for 12 Week Breakthrough Members

After my divorce from the Narcissist (18 years ago), I thought I was a "recovered" codependent until I became the sole caregiver of my sick father, coupled with being promoted to a Supervisor (aka lots of conflicts), both during the COVID19 outbreak in 2020. Needless to say, no amount of therapy, medication, meditation, or hours of listening to podcasts gave me what I was searching for. I understood as best I could why I was the way I was, but something was missing. This program is what was missing. It is a lifechanging investment in myself, and taking it online at my own pace allowed me to take the time to digest the parts that were emotionally difficult for me to swallow. Lisa's YouTube videos got me through my darkest days in 2020 and kept me going... this Breakthrough program is allowing me to move forward to becoming true to myself. Thank you is inadequate but Thank You, Thank You ....to eternity

Keep this program for three years and cycle through it at least three times the first year, twice the second, and at least once the third year to help you BREAK the subconscious, limiting, selfabandoning patterns within you responsible for why you reenact childhood trauma in adulthood.
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Thank you for watching, Why You Can't Save a Narcissist: Knowing When It's Time to Walk Away with Lisa A. Romano

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