Why do ADHD and Autism get misdiagnosed as Bipolar Disorder? What impact does bipolar medication have on someone? How do Brandon and Thomas process anger differently?

Brandon Christ (@autistically_b) was diagnosed with Autism (ASD2) and ADHD recently after a long life of being misdiagnosed with Bipolar Disorder. Working in physiotherapy with a passion for baseball and fitness, Brandon seeks to open up about his experiences with latediagnosed life and how fitness has shaped him as a person.

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Chapters:
00:00 02:18 Introduction
02:18 12:53 Misdiagnosed With Bipolar
12:53 16:22 Autism, Mental health and meds
16:22 24:47 Autism Childhood Experiences
24:47 30:36 Meltdowns, Bullying and Aggression
30:36 36:09 Behavioural Modification
36:09 39:45 Forgiving Neurotypicals
39:45 42:33 Pre and Post People’s First
42:33 46:29 Autistic In A Neurotypical World
46:29 53:41 Sigma Males and PDA
53:41 1:00:35 Therapy and Meds For The Wrong Diagnosis
1:00:35 01:04:04 Overanalysing Indirect Communication
01:04:04 01:14:33 Sport and Exercise
01:14:33 01:21:35 Alcohol Dependence To Fitness
01:21:35 01:39:24 Autism In Sport And PDA
01:39:24 01:50:58 Autism Struggles
01:50:58 02:03:06 Superman Is Autistic

The conversation commences on the topic of neurodiversity, looking at the differences between inherent and acquired neurodiversity, as well as the fine lines between viewing some neurodivergencies as good, neutral, or inherently bad.

On the topic of masking in adolescence, Thomas tended to be quiet and blended in as much as he could... whilst Brandon became hyperverbal and highly social.

Thomas dives deeper into Brandon's difficult childhood, highlighting the behavioral training he received due to stimming, meltdowns, and attention problems. Brandon reflects on life before the People's First movement and how his early adulthood influenced his life outcome.

Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) is best characterised as a sensitivity to expectations, not defiance, and is fairly common in autistic people. The two talk about their experiences with PDA and aggression at school, at work, and within sports. Highlighting the silly online culture around things such as the Alpha Male, Thomas postulates that the idea of the Sigma Male likely comes from the existence of confident autistic men with PDA.

It can be hard being autistic in a neurotypical world; Thomas and Brandon connect on the negative experiences that shaped their prior negative mindset towards neurotypicals... and how they shifted their perspective to forgiveness in later adulthood.

Sport and exercise is a big part of both Brandon and Thomas' life... it's regulating, a great social lubricant, helps develop grit, and can temper you against sensory overload in the long term. Autistic people can struggle with instinctual movements and hypermobility, but have a lot of strengths in sports too!

Brandon directs a question to the host about the struggles he faces most often as an autistic person. Thomas highlights it was once alexithymia and other people which were the biggest factors, with executive functioning and transition difficulties being a close second. Being autistic often comes with unfavorable life experiences and cooccurring conditions, and for Thomas mental illness is the biggest difficulty in life.

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