Here's an important message for you if you're a people pleaser, empathetic, or too considerate at times. You are not responsible for others' feelings, or how they respond to events. Don't shrink yourself down to make those around you more comfortable. Don't dim your light. Yes, be kind, compassionate and considerate, but not at the expense of your authenticity. ✨

What are your thoughts on this? Do you believe situational context matters? Or should you always be completely (brutally) honest and authentic?

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