2 degrees but unemployed, alone, and back in my parents' house in my late 20s— not exactly how I imagined things to turn out, but here I am.

In this video, I wanted to share my experience when life deviates from our meticulously thoughtout plans, along with some takeaways gained from my most recent hurdle.

Let me know what you think, and if you've had a similar experience, please feel free to share them in the comments below!

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⌚Timestamps:
0:00 Introduction
0:51 Background
1:59 Selfblame, guilt and shame
2:22 Circumstances beyond our control
3:14 Lesson 1: Selfcompassion
4:39 Lesson 2: Recognising when to make a change
6:01 Lesson 3: Don't postpone your happiness
6:46 Recap
7:16 Closing remarks