No judgement here, console commands are part of the game so feel free to use them as you please! There are a ton in Bannerlord and this guide will show you everything you need to know to get started using them.

ALT + ~ (open console commands)
config.cheat_mode 1 (turn on cheat mode)
config.cheat_mode 0 (turn off cheat mode)
campaign.add_renown_to_clan #
campaign.add_gold_to_hero #
campaign.give_troops help
battanian_fian_champion #
khuzait_khans_guard #
campaign.give_item_to_main_party ItemName #
campaign.add_attribute_points_to_hero #
campaign.add_focus_points_to_hero #
campaign.set_all_skills_main_hero #
campaign.add_companions #
campaign.set_all_companion_skills #
campaign.give_all_crafting_materials_to_main_party #
campaign.unlock_all_crafting_pieces
campaign.give_settlement_to_player Town/castle
campaign.marry_player_with_hero HeroName
campaign.kill_hero HeroName
campaign.join_kingdom KingdomName
campaign.lead_your_faction
campaign.add_influence #
campaign.multiply_campaign_speed #
atmosphere.set_interpolation_tod 120
campaign.move_time_forward # (hours)
campaign.set_main_party_attackable 0
campaign.declare_war faction1 faction2
campaign.declare_peace faction1 faction2

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