“You cannot date until you get married.”

Born to strict Nigerian parents, Yvonne determined to get married and intimate at 18.

But her enthusiasm was diminished by her friends’ low expectations of sex.

After getting “bamboozled by Jesus” in college, today Yvonne is a 33 year old virgin. Suddenly her parents want her to meet someone.

Yvonne gives 5 suggestions for finding love regardless of your beliefs, values and choices. Because when you find the right person, the wait is worth it.

Yvonne Orji is a NigerianAmerican actress, comedienne and writer who continues to display her versatility and passion with each project she takes on. On television, she stars in HBO’s new comedy series “Insecure”. The show follows the friendship of two modernday black women and all of their uncomfortable experiences and racy tribulations. Orji stars as one of these women opposite Issa Rae, who is executive producing the show along with Prentice Penny and Melina Matsoukas. She is also currently developing a halfhour sitcom, based on her life entitled “First Gen”, that Oprah and David Oyelowo are executive producing. The show is a comedy about a Nigerian girl who trades medical school for a career in standup comedy and the adventures that ensue after her strict African mother discovers her plans.

This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at http://ted.com/tedx