We all want to have a good, stable relationship with somebody, says Dr. Helen Fisher. So it's important to understand how intense romantic love affects our longterm goals.

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Intense feelings of love shut down the parts of our brain involved in decisionmaking. This is why, according to Dr. Helen Fisher, you should spend a lot of time with someone before marrying them.

Dr. Fisher believes that onenight stands, "friends with benefits," and longterm cohabitation before marriage are signs of a healthy change in attitude toward love. People are so afraid of divorce, that they want to experiment before settling down.

While marriage was once the start of a longterm relationship, today it is the finale.

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