Being able to communicate well verbally is one the most important skills a person can have. Every day people are turned down for jobs, for romance and for social interaction because of their inability to communicate and therefore connect.

I completely understand why many people dread conversations and hate small talk. It can feel forced, it can feel like a waste of time or it can just be plain awkward. But it can also foster connections, build rapport and help you be viewed favorably and advance your position.

I think by really understanding the importance of conversation, the concept becomes easier to grasp. And you’ll quickly realize The pros significantly outweigh the cons. Conversations make people feel comfortable and connected. I can’t think of a single area of life where that won’t be useful.