When you get overwhelmed by making a choice, when you can’t decide between A and B, you often settle for C or you end up paralyzed, procrastinating, or making no decision at all. In this video you’ll learn the 3 underlying causes of decision paralysis, and 2 keys to overcoming it. And I'll give you a hint, it has to do with emotion regulation and executive functioning.
Frieda’s story is the epitome of decision paralysis. Decision paralysis is when you get overwhelmed with a complicated decision, or a simple one. Deciding “What should I major in at college?” or “Where should we eat tonight?” might make you freeze up, you might avoid it, overthink it, delay it, or constantly second guess your choice. This can lead to choice fatigue, you might feel exhausted or just give up on college or eating out that night.
Or you might procrastinate, instead of just picking the topic for that one huge assignment, you do a ton of little tasks that aren’t important. Or you spend time watching shows or on social media anything you can to avoid dealing with that overwhelming decision.

00:00 What causes analysis paralysis?
00:37 Promo for The emotion processing course
00:58 Story about overthinking decisions
02:08 What is decision paralysis?
03:19 3 Causes of Overthinking Decisions
04:12 How to stop overthinking decisions
06:40 Learn to regulate the fear of making a decision
10:17 3 Mantras to overcome overthinking decisions
11:02 Back to Frieda's story about overcoming decision paralysis
11:40 Summary of how to stop overthinking decisions

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