How to Make a Person Miss You, Wish You, Think You, Miss You
This is one of the things I have said most times, and I know that it is one of the most difficult to understand, especially when someone interests us too much.
Being helpful, unconditional, complacent, however much you want, does not make you attractive, desired, valued ...
I remember that when I was younger, and began to have my first dates, I believed that if I became the "best option", in the most attentive, sweet, complacent ... would be more valued.
Sadly, it turns out that this does not work. And no, I'm not saying you can not be sweet, caring, and a person's love. Do not.
Only, I did not realize that I became the most servile option, and perhaps, yes, a good option, but not the most attractive one.
Good. That's what I want to explain with the rest of the video.
How to make a person miss you, think you, want you, miss you.

1. The absence, the nonpresence, the uncertainty about someone, is what makes us value that someone.
If the total availability or presence of a person, is something that we do not have full certainty, then, we value.
Think of this example: You have just taken two liters of water, and someone with the best intention, offers you a glass of water.
You want it? No. Not at that moment.
You have to be thirsty, to value something as simple and as accessible as a glass of water.
It is when you have had a great physical loss or when you have not drunk water, when you need it most, when you value it most and when it matters the most.
Good. Well, like it, or not, the same goes for people.
It is the absence of people, which causes us to feel the sensation of missing them, of longing, desire, hope, of seeing them.
It may be difficult to understand, especially because this is not what we are taught from a young age.
But it is not safe and constant availability, but the absence and lack of someone, which makes you really value and miss him.
And no, I'm not saying: Make yourself interesting. Make it like you're busy. Make it like you have a very important life to attend to.
What I really want to tell you is: Be interesting. Take care Have a really important and interesting life to attend to.
It's when you have an interesting life, when your life is valuable. And it is then, when you are perceived as valuable.
There is no trick. It is like that. Reality is determining.

2. The quality of time together with a person makes that person truly endearing.
Let's see. Parenthesis. Each person has, at each moment, whether or not they want an "emotional load".
Emotional Burden is how full a person looks. It is the natural consequence of the life you are living.
Sorry to say it like that, but, if the life you're living, it's a shitty life, then, you carry all the time, an emotional load of shit.
I know some people do not like me to say it that way, and I do not like it, either, but I'm not interested in sounding cool. I'm interested in doing well.
Do you want me to talk to you cool but that life treats you like a rag, or do you want me to talk to you like that and that life treat you cool?
Do you want to be missed? Become an intimate person, whose mere presence inspires charm, affection, growth, fun, pleasure.
Bad example: You want someone to miss you, but, you get depressed, you get infatuated, you complain, you cry, you make drama, you make him feel guilty ...
No. This is terrible. It will not work. You will never be surprised if what you represent is discomfort.
Many times, people who are worse off in their relationships are people who have for many years abandoned themselves.
She wants to be loved, but she does not love herself, so ... How? Explain me!
There are people who left themselves for so long that they do not even know they are abandoned.
If you do not go through here, or by mistake, the idea of ​​changing to improve, perhaps you already left, and you do not know.
Now, good example: You want someone to miss you, then, have such a life, that makes you inspire wellbeing, pleasure, curiosity, joy, freedom ...
Yes, this is the path without tricks, it's real. You must look at yourself, rather than look at yourself with someone else.

3. Freedom.
Wow. Sometimes people have so little respect for their own freedom ...