Why are eulogies only for the dying? In this funny, touching talk, Andrea Driessen argues that writing your loved ones a “grace note” – a kind of living eulogy – is a potent tool for connection now that also lessens the pain of grief and regret later. Everyone wants to matter, and Andrea’s wish is that we share what matters most with our loved ones while they’re still alive to hear it.

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Andrea is a meeting designer, author, and hospice volunteer. As founder and Chief Boredom Buster at Seattlebased No More Boring Meetings, she teams with companies, nonprofits, and trade associations to secure toptier speakers, entertainers, and thought leaders, to create fresh meeting formats.

Andrea found her heart’s work at Providence Hospice of Seattle, where she has been volunteering since 2016. Through her interactions with people who are dying—and their loved ones who are living—she has developed a compelling, actionable practice for easing grief and boosting happiness.

She is the author of the international awardwinning book, The NonObvious Guide to Event Planning: For KickAss Gatherings that Inspire People. A regular contributor to The Meeting Professional magazine, she has also been a Professional Convention Management Association (PCMA) “BestinClass” speaker.

This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx'>https://www.ted.com/tedx
Andrea Driessen is a meeting designer, author, and hospice volunteer. As founder and Chief Boredom Buster at Seattlebased No More Boring Meetings, she teams with companies, nonprofits, and trade associations to secure toptier speakers, entertainers, and thought leaders, to create fresh meeting formats, contentdriven games, and outofthebox engagement tools.

Driessen found her heart’s work at Providence Hospice of Seattle, where she has been volunteering since 2016. Through her interactions with people who are dying—and their loved ones who are living—she has developed a powerful, actionable practice for lessening the pain of grief and regret, boosting happiness, and shifting how we move through the world. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx'>https://www.ted.com/tedx