Sometimes, no matter how much a man loves you or desires youhe has one of those moments where he just can't get it up. He can hope, pray, wish, call in a shaman and use every Jedi mind trick in the book and he still can't get an erection.

When this happens, it's frustrating for the woman and embarrassing for the man.

So, what does it mean when a man can't get hard and can't get an erection?

In this video for women, Susie and Otto Collins
http://RedHotAfter50.com explore the question of What it means about you, your love, your desire and your relationship when your man can't get it up.

Like a lot of women, you want pleasure and you want to feel the spark and the passion but when he can't get it up or can't get hard it can feel so devastating.

Watch this video now to learn what to do when he can't get it up.